Helping A Loved One Acquire Assisted Living

Helping A Loved One Acquire Assisted Living



It’s not really a part of life that we like to think about all too often but sometimes we are forced into making tough decisions. One of the hardest can be putting our loved ones into care.

Assisted living isn’t just for elderly, but it is the most common form. In most cases, it will be a parent. This person brought you into this world and it’s only natural that you want to look after them now. Unfortunately, that might be beyond your remit of capabilities.

We won’t lie, you should be prepared for an emotional roller coaster and there will probably be moments when you temporarily regret your choice. Rest assured, though, it will be for the better in the long-term.

Here are some steps you can take to ensure you get the best help for your elderly loved ones:

Acknowledging There’s A Problem

Often the hardest stage of seeking help for either yourself or a loved one is accepting that it is needed. In an ideal world, we’d all love to take care of our own problems. Sadly, that isn’t always possible.

Acknowledgement is the first step on the road to finding the solution, whether it’s fixing the foundations of your house or helping a loved one get the attention they need. The fact you are reading this post suggests that you’ve already come to terms that your relative probably does need help.

With acceptance comes the chance to resolve. The next step is to get help.


Help can come in many different forms and knowing which is best for your loved one is often half the battle.

This is the case with all forms of seeking help but is especially true when helping an elder relative get the best sort of assisted living arrangement. Dementia patients will require a home offering specialist care, such as Bria Health Services, for example.

Thankfully, the internet means you have a whole world of information at your fingertips and can carry out as much research as you feel is required. Ultimately, though, you should consult the professional advice of a doctor. They will be able to give a much stronger verdict.

Ultimately it’s a case of different people, different needs. It is crucial to get this decision right. Knowing your specific requirements is a huge breakthrough in finding the best solution.


You don’t want to see your loved one suffering any longer. It’s important to get them the required help as soon as possible.

Many people take a negative view on the concept of seeking help but it is often the only genuine solution. By now, you already know this to be true with regards to your loved one.The sooner you get this sorted, the sooner everyone can get back into routine. Not least for the patient.

Putting someone you love in unfamiliar surroundings will be difficult at first. Humans are resilient, though, and will settle pretty quickly. Once they have, it will be a much better place for them to be. Assisted living will provide a far more comfortable future, which is all you can really hope for.

What To Do When You’ve Agreed To Look After A Friends Pet

What To Do When You’ve Agreed To Look After A Friends Pet



I love to share my home with my friends and family. It’s fantastic being able to have a house full of guests. Because I have a large home, I was thinking, what if my friends ask me to look after their pet? If you’re not a pet owner, the thought can be a scary one. I’ve had a think and tried to pull together some tips, just in case!

Ask For A Checklist

If you don’t own a pet, I think it’s a good idea to ask for a to-do list. Even if you own pets, I’d ask. Each pet is different (much like their owners!). I’d want to know what food the pet likes and when it likes to eat. I’d also like to know of any allergies or illnesses I might notice while caring for them. If it were a dog or cat taking medication, I’d want to some tips on how to deliver it to them.

There are a few other things to think about such as cleaning, walks and even their favourite toys. Having a discussing before you take home any pet is worthwhile.

Tidy Away Breakables

If you’re thinking of looking after a friends cat or dog, my first instinct would be to tidy away anything that might break. Animals love to explore especially if it’s somewhere new! I’d make sure anything fragile was out of reach or locked away. Remember, if it’s a cat they can climb quite high. Moving something to the top shelf might be effective if you have an extra mischievous cat.

Stock Up On Supplies

I’d imagine the owner of the pet would provide you with a few bits to make sure their pet has everything they need. I liked to feel ready and prepared, so I’d browse a site like first to see if there’s anything useful for the pet. It might be a good idea to have a few extra treats. Any pet will like you more if you feed it something special!

Watch Out For Hair



Fluffy animals get hair everywhere. In my hair-busting kit, I’d have lint rollers and rubber gloves. Why rubber gloves? If you use a damp rubber glove on a surface, the hair will stick to it like magic. You might want to adapt your cleaning schedule and give everywhere a good vacuum once the pet has left.

Stay Alert

When I’m looking after anything that doesn’t belong to me, I like to be careful. When you’re dealing with a living creature, you need to be more vigilant. Watch out for open doors, busy roads and anything that could cause harm to the animal. If you do have kids or young children visiting your home, speak to them about the pet. The poor animal will be more nervous as it’s in a new environment, and kids can be a bit too enthusiastic sometimes.

What other advice would you offer someone who’s looking after a friend’s pet? Let me know.

5 Top Proseccos to try this year

5 Top Proseccos to try this year

‘To-do’ lists help us to organize our activities in a better way and not to miss anything. They may include long term goals such as to master Chinese language, to earn your first million and to go to live in Goa, as well as endless routine tasks. As often happens, we try to set our goals at the beginning of each year and start the incoming period with new guides. With them in mind we want to bring new experiences into our lives, shift to a new level and climb new mountains in personal and professional life. ‘To try Prosecco’ sounds not so global and ambitious. Indeed, this task has nothing to do with long-term goals. However, the little things in life make all the difference – and this little goal might add a touch of class to your everyday.

A glass of Italian sparkling wine called Prosecco does not warrant big changes, but, for sure, it may make your day, bring pleasure and inspire to great deeds. Watching the bubbles coming up from the bottom and bursting on the surface is like meditation, they hypnotize you and make you relax. New to prosecco? Frizzante Prosecco is lightly sparkling, and the name Spumante Prosecco says that you should expect full effervescing.

What is important to know is that Prosecco is best within first year after bottling. That’s why this fizzy wine should not be kept for a special occasion for a long time. It is produced in such a way to save freshness of wine. So, unlike a bottle of champagne, don’t put your prosecco away for a special occasion – drink it to celebrate the little occasions!

The reason why it’s made for drinking today, not tomorrow, is the way it is produced, named after Eugène Charmat and has other names such as the Italian method, or the Tank method. The stainless tanks are the place where juice is fermented for the second time. This method made it possible for Italian winemakers to offer affordable sparkling wine to the customers all over the world. French way of vinification is pretty different, because the second fermentation occurs in every individual bottle. This process requires more labor and time. And of course, the price (from 40USD) of Champagne bottle is considerably higher than Prosecco (from 10 USD). So, opt for prosecco and you’ll pay less and get bubbly wine with delicate flavors and scents.

This year we suggest you to taste the following five Proseccos:

  • Marks and Spencer Prosecco is dry with citrus flavors and lime scent.
  • Valdobbiadene Prosecco Spumante DOCG has creamy flavor with the notes of autumn fruits. Mix this type of Prosecco with peach puree and enjoy Bellini cocktail.
  • Zardetto Prosecco Brut is delicate and rich sparkler with peachy and spicy flavours.
  • Sommariva Prosecco di Conegliano-Valdobbiadene Superiore DOCG NV is refreshing with stone fruit notes.
  • Sorelle Bronca Valdobbiadene Prosecco Superiore DOCG Extra Dry NVhas the scents of acacia and pear.

Celebrate the everyday and  try one of these five top Proseccos – they’ll put some sparkle in your life for less than you would think!

Fix foundation cracks before they get worse!

Fix foundation cracks before they get worse!

Most Canadian homes will experience cracks in their foundations at one point or another.  Although it’s tempting to look at such cracks as simply an unattractive nuisance, they are actually a much bigger problem than that.  Whether the problem is caused by shifts in the ground, hydrostatic pressure, soil setting or other reasons, it’s very important to have foundation cracks fixed immediately.  The longer the crack is left to its own devices, the worse it will get.  Cracks in the foundation can let ground water sink into the foundation and into your basement, which can cause mold, mildew and serious water damage.

If you notice that you have cracks in your foundation, contact a company such as Renco right away.  They can repair the crack and prevent further damage from occurring.  Depending on the severity and nature of the crack in your foundation, there are several different ways to address the issue:

Pouring additional concrete into the crack

Injecting the crack with an epoxy mixture to seal it and make it water tight

Application of a vinyl board

Waterproofing methods to keep water from seeping in through the crack

Whichever method you choose, it’s important to know that each option has advantages and disadvantages.  Some are messier than others, some will require your yard to be dug up, etc.  In addition, where you live in Canada could affect the option that is best for you, as well.  If you live in one of the drier Prairie Provinces such as Alberta, the right choice will be different for you than if you live in British Columbia, where there is much more annual rainfall.  A foundation specialist will be able to recommend the right solution for you based on all of these criteria.

The most important thing when dealing with foundation cracks is to call someone immediately – that’s true. However, rushing to hire the first company you find could lead to disaster.  Always ask your trusted friends and family for recommendations before you hire anyone.  They are your best source for recommendations because you can be assured you are getting an honest assessment of the company and the work that they do. Be diligent in your search for a reputable company, but don’t put off your search.  The longer you wait, the bigger the risk you run of the cracks in your foundation getting worse.

It doesn’t take much for cracks to worsen.  When that happens, water can seep into your foundation and into your home, compromising the structural integrity of your home.  Water seepage can also cause the growth of mold and mildew, which can adversely affect the health of every member of your family if those spores become airborne.  To avoid potentially devastating effects of water damage in your home, address any cracks in your foundation immediately.  And because you may not know where to look for cracks, it’s always a good idea to have a professional come in and do regular inspections to keep on top of any cracks that may form.

4 Extra Special Drink Ideas For Your Next Party

4 Extra Special Drink Ideas For Your Next Party

If you like wine, cocktails and other delicious drinks as much as I do, then you’ll also consider them an important feature at any party. At most occasions, the food takes centre stage, and the drinks are the supporting cast. However, with just a little creativity, the beverages at any party can become more interesting, enjoyable and complimentary of the food. Intrigued? Here are my extra special drink ideas for your next party.



  1. How about themed drinks?

Themed parties are so much fun! You can choose any theme you like from Club Tropicana to Great Gatsby. The beauty of them is that you get to be very creative with your decorations, costumes and music. And if you want to go all out, your food and drink can also reflect your theme too. So for a Club Tropicana theme you could have vibrant, fruity cocktails served in hurricane glasses, coconuts or pineapples. Obviously there would be lots of fun decorations like umbrellas, slices of fruit and funky straws. These little details will all contribute to a very authentic themed party.

  1. Organise a pop-up bar

A bar at home is a real luxury that, unfortunately, most of us don’t have. However, you can hire catering services that will set-up a pop-up bar in your home or garden, complete with a bartender or two. This may be a bit of an expense, but could be the perfect touch for a very special occasion. But if you don’t want to blow your budget on this if you have the space for it, why not create a DIY bar?



  1. Be cool!

As the summer is on its way, you are probably thinking about the summer parties you’ll be enjoying with friends and family. The essential thing when it comes to providing drinks at a summer part is that they are kept cool and refreshing. There are some extra special ways of doing this. Ice molds in all different shapes including spheres and pyramids will create an interesting and beautiful way to present your drinks. As will ice cubes filled with petals or herbs. Another great idea is to pour ice cold water into glasses before pouring the drinks. This creates a lovely frosted and refreshing look that will definitely have your guests oohing and aahing!

  1. Pair it with food

Certain foods and drinks bring out the best in each other. Another extra special idea to make the most of the beverage element of your party is to pair a different drink with each course. The most obvious alcohol to do this with is wine, but to mix things up you can also include beer, spirits, liquors and non-alcoholic drinks. Not only will the result be delicious at a stylish dinner party, but it may also be educational for you and your guests. You can find out more about matching drinks with food be researching online.

As you can see, there is so much fun to be had with drinks at your next party. If you have any more extra special drink ideas, I would absolutely love to hear about them.

Have a great party!

Australian Wine, Sun And Tennis – Reasons To Head Down Under

Australian Wine, Sun And Tennis – Reasons To Head Down Under

Whether you are interested in a nice break away from the rat race to a nice relaxing beach or want to live it up in one of the most vibrant cities in the world, there are many great reasons to head down under for your next holiday.  In the following article we want to give you the low-down on why we think you can’t go wrong by booking a trip to Australia if you are looking for a truly unforgettable experience.

The Sightseeing

Australia has plenty of world landmarks and places of interest.  It doesn’t matter if you are a fan of the arts, sports (we’ll look at that in more detail further down the article), culture or history – there are locations, buildings and activities to suit even the most discerning and fussy traveller.

The Weather And Climate

If you time your holiday perfectly, you will be able to benefit from the gorgeous sunshine that Australia is well known for.  Regardless of whether you are down at the beach or checking out some of the sites and the sounds, by the time your trip has finished you will have a beautiful tan.

The Beach

Speaking of beaches, if you are looking for either a secluded beach holiday or a high-octane thrill-a-minute getaway by the sea, there are hundreds of pristine beaches to choose from.  Kick back and relax or surf, windsurf

The Wine

Australian wine has become more and more popular over the years and if as this is a wine blog, it would be silly not to mention wine as a reason for visiting this beautiful country.  If you are planning to take some day trips away from the big cities or spending sometime in the more rural areas of the country, try to book yourself a tour round some of the vineyards and wineries and will not be disappointed.

The Food

Due to its position on the globe and the fact that many people of many different nations have emigrated there to take up residency, the range of cuisines available in many of the countries bigger cities is exceptional.  Thai, Japanese and Indonesian cuisines mingle with French, Italian and many others.  There is something for everyone, even people with fussiest palates, in Australia.

The Australian Open

As fans of tennis, at YourWineYourWay, and as you can now pre-order tickets for the 2016 event from Queen of Tickets, we felt it necessary to focus on one of our main reasons for considering trips to Australia,.  Although tennis fans enjoy all four of the grand slam events, the Australian Open seems to be the favourite, not just because of the location; but the actual tournament itself and the rumbustious home crowd.  The Australian Open is also the only tournament of the majors that has retractable roofs on all of it’s main, show courts.  If you need any more encouragement, consider Melbourne Park’s address, where all the action take place, on Batman Avenue!

Buying Wine Online

Buying Wine Online

One of the greatest beneficiaries of the internet boom has been consumerism. At no time in history has it been half as easy to purchase items as it is today. And while the internet once sold only niche items, you can now purchase virtually anything there; it really is the world’s most holistic marketplace. In the past few years, wine has become an increasingly popular internet purchase. As such, hundreds of different online wine stores have grown considerably. Buying wine online is an excellent choice, as it offers myriad benefits over going to a grocer or a liquor store. Here are a few of the various advantages of buying wine online.

Cheaper Prices

It goes without saying that paying less is better than paying more. In general, wine, like nearly all goods, is cheaper when ordered online, even when you account for shipping prices. This is because there is more competition online (thus driving competitive prices), and online companies don’t need to staff as many people as grocery stores. Many online wine stores get their wine straight from the winery, which also reduces prices. If you drink a large amount of wine, you can save a lot of money every year by ordering from an online store.

Larger Variety

Because online wine stores don’t have to worry about shelf space, they’re able to stock a much larger variety of wines. This means that the world is your oyster when buying wine online.  You can choose between hundreds of different brands, years, varietals, and regions. Not only does that mean that you have more wines to choose from, but it means you’ll be able to locate hard-to-find or rare vintages, or a wine you tried once that you’d love to revisit.

Great Sales

Online stores tend to have bigger and better sales than grocery stores or liquor stores. Because online stores have such a large stock of wines, they’re more likely to run a sale on a variety that they’re running out of. Many online wine stores run frequent two-for-one sales, or offer special prices on new wines.

Unique Experiences

Grocery and liquor stores tend to offer individual bottles of wine, or cases, and nothing else. But online stores have a great variety of unique experiences to offer the buyer. Many online wine stores sell sample cases, full of half-glass bottles of dozens of wine, so that you can quickly expand your repertoire. Other online stores offer special cases that are designed for a diverse tasting of a particular variety, or a particular part of the world. You can increase the diversity of your wine drinking very quickly with online wine stores.

Helpful reviews

If you buy wine in a store, chances are no one there can help you pick out what bottle to buy. Online stores feature great descriptions by professionals, as well as excellent reviews by fellow wine enthusiasts, so that you can find out what the wine is all about, straight from the mouth of those who have actually imbibed it.


Above all, the one thing that drives people to shop online is convenience. By purchasing wine online, you don’t have to get in your car, find parking, walk through a store full of people, and wait in line. You can just log onto your computer, and a few minutes later have purchased wine to be delivered straight to your door. If you’re a wine enthusiast, there’s no better way to get your fill than by shopping online.

Get the most out of a European road trip

Get the most out of a European road trip

Grand Prix racing is now a worldwide event, with Formula One events held across North and South America, Asia, Australia, Russia and South Africa. But Europe will always be considered the home and birthplace of Grand Prix motor racing and Formula One, and for this reason the continent’s racetracks will always hold a special place in the hearts of avid motor racing fans. Even circuits that are no longer active on the Grand Prix calendar are often rich with history and significance to the sport, with the names of certain stretches and corners alone possessing an iconic power. So if you’re a racing fan planning a visit to Europe, what are the must-see circuits? Here are a few suggestions.

Monte Carlo

If it’s glamour you’re after, this Monaco street race is the place to be. The lack of overtaking on the narrow roads doesn’t make Monte Carlo any less challenging, as corners like Ste Devote, Mirabeau, Loews Hairpin and Nouvelle Chicane are legendary obstacles in their own right. The Monaco Grand Prix takes place in the last weekend in May and is attended by A-list celebrities and rich socialites, watching from locations like the Ermano Palace Penthouse before partying the night away on their private yachts.


This legendary Italian venue is an F1 mainstay, and the 137,000 capacity Autodromo Nazionale Monza just north of Milan actually hosts three separate tracks in the woodland setting of the Royal Villa of Monza Park. The 3.6 mile Grand Prix track is complemented by the 1.494 mile junior track and a shorter high speed oval track that is now unused and falling into decay, but it is still a fascinating site to visit. In 1968, Monza was the location of future FIA president Max Mosley’s greatest triumph as a racing driver, when he came eighth in a non-championship race. You can read more about him at Mosley retired from Formula 2 racing the following year to co-found racing car manufacturers March Engineering. His legal skills and background eventually led to him becoming president of FISA’s manufacturing commission, and in 1991 he was elected FISA president, then FIA president two years’ later.


Spa Francorchamps in Belgium, popularly known simply as Spa, is one of the most challenging and hair raising of Formula 1 circuits. Set in the Ardennes Mountains, the original eight-mile length was reduced to barely half that for safety reasons, but it still retains its reputation for breath-taking rises and falls, stunning sweeps and tight corners. Spa is considered one of the best places in the world to watch the Grand Prix, and it’s also famous for its 24 and 6 hour races. Bear in mind however that the weather can be unpredictable at the best of times.

Other popular circuits include Nurburgring in the Eifel Mountains, Le Mans, and Brands Hatch and Silverstone in the UK. Wherever you choose to visit, make sure you plan ahead and book appropriate accommodation. That way you can see all the sights and catch all the races that will make this a European road trip to remember.

Great Bar Tricks for Your Next Dinner Party

Great Bar Tricks for Your Next Dinner Party

Let’s face it; we all want to jazz up our dinner parties. So, what better way than to do this with some amazing bar tricks? They are sure to enthral and enrapture your guests! You can make this as simple or as complex as you like. Of course, for novices, it may be wise to keep it simple. After all, you don’t want to waste your wine, gin or preferred tipple. It’s all about making this look smooth. It’s a great way to add a little more bang to your dinner party.

So, let’s take a look at some great bar tricks you can try at your next soiree.

  1.    The Delicate Balance

This is a great one to try for those that have never done bar tricks before. Bet your pals that you can balance forks on the ends of glasses. The best kind of glass to use is a pint glass. That way, you will be able to make sure that your glasses have enough depth to them. All you need is two forks, a pint glass and some matches. Make sure the tongs of the forks are placed at the side of the matches. Then, set the matches along the fork on to the edge of the glass. It’s a sneaky trick to do as you’re not technically placing or balancing the forks on the glass. But, it does create an illusion that you are doing so. It’s fun, and it looks kind of cool too!

  1.    The Napkin Knot

If you are somewhat more confident with your tricks and magic skills, this can be a good one to impress your guests with. Just get a bog standard napkin. Of course, only cloth will do for a refined dinner party. Now, tell your guests that you can tie a knot in it. This may sound simple, but there is a catch: you cannot let go of the sides of the cloth napkin!

The knack to completing this trick is to make sure that you fold your arms and pick up the corners of the napkin while your arms are folded. Then, ensure that you unfold your arms, taking the napkin with you. Simply drop your arms and voila! That way, a knot is forced without the need for you to touch any other part of the cloth!

  1.    The Ultimate Square Challenge

Taking a set of matches, position them into five squares. Now, bet your friends that they can’t turn this set of five squares into a set of four, by only moving two matchsticks. It sounds complex, and you’ll have hours of fun watching them squirm. The trick, of course, is to move the bottom right and left matches to create a zigzag based pattern instead.


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  1.    Forget the Bottle Opener: It’s All About Newspaper Openers

Okay, hands up if you have used anything but a bottle opener to take the top of a beer? Now, you can open your beer using paper. Yes, really. Everyone will say that you can’t. But, there is a knack. Make sure that you roll the paper into a roll. Then, flatten it and bend it in half. By creating a sturdier piece of paper, you can simply remove the top of the beer bottle. It’s one of the finest and most fun bar tricks ever!


Planning A Stylish Dinner Party

I recently had a fantastic dinner party with my friends and family. The reason I think it was so good was because I was able to take part in the majority of the fun, eating and drinking, not been stranded as hosts usually are, in the kitchen. Below I am going to share some of my top dinner party tips, so hopefully you can replicate it and have a fantastic evening too.

A stylish dinner party doesn’t have to be all about trying to out do another host, or spending five days learning how to create the perfect swan from a napkin. It’s about time, and how much of it you can devote to your guests. That is the true key to the whole event. If you don’t spend enough time with the people, you invite you may as well have not invited them in the first place.


Chose a theme for your party. If the majority of your friends work in the city in the week, give them a break by doing something a little more fun like a fancy dress party. I chose an Oscars themed event where the boys came in suits, and the girls wore dresses. It set the tone for the evening. This allowed me to choose the correct add ons for the table and dining room, as well as the music – I chose some classic movie soundtracks from iTunes. If you don’t want to be bothered with venue dressing, you can get companies to help you do it.


If you want to have a stylish evening and you are feeling creative why not make some handmade invitation letters, they are fairly simple. However if creativity is not really up your street, you can buy some ornate and fancy ones from places such as Etsy. Another great tip is to ask if anyone has any dietary requirements on the invite. This way you won’t find out mid-way through your starter than one of your friends can’t have milk. Buy lots of candles or tealights, they are much more stylish than standard lighting and make the evening seem more intimate.


Now you know how many guests to expect and what foods they will/won’t eat its time to decide on the food. My best advice is to select things that you had made before and made well. Many of my friends have tried to accomplish something crazy they saw on a cookery show, only for it to go wrong and end up ordering take away. Chose something that you know how to make well, and if possible pick something you can prepare/make the previous day to maximise your time with your guests.


Drinks are a tough one to get right. I usually let the theme dictate it somewhat. For our Oscars evening, it was all champagne. On one of my other evenings, punch was more fitting. If in doubt though, let your guests bring a bottle, at least the will have something to drink that they definitely like.